My Battle Call | To the parents of a child who has hearing loss
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To the parents of a child who has hearing loss

To the new parents of a child diagnosed with hearing loss,

I know how you are feeling. I have been there. And I am here to tell you—

It is going to be OK.

Yes, it is going to be challenging and you might find yourself thinking you aren’t made for this kind of stuff. But, you’ve got this.

Right now you might be feeling sad. You may be grieving the parenthood you imagined you would have. And those feelings are probably filling you up with an overwhelming amount of guilt. Because you know you should be grateful for having your baby and there are so many others who have it so much harder.

But. . .

You will soon move through the grief and accept your child for exactly who they were designed to be. These mixed emotions don’t mean you have less love for your baby. Rather, it means you are human.

Give yourself grace as you process the unexpected nature of this new diagnosis and then roll your sleeves up and get to work.

You may be fearing what the future holds for your child? Perhaps you are worried whether or not they will be capable of achieving their goals and dreams.

Will they make friends? What will it be like to grow up with hearing loss?

You may be worried because you do not know what to expect.

What you will soon learn is the sky will be the limit. Hearing loss will not inhibit your child’s ability to be an excellent student, a compassionate friend, a kind human, and a thriving adolescent/teen/young adult.

They can play sports, learn an instrument, write a novel, and surf epic waves.
What I know for sure is there will be seasons when it feels hard. Really hard. But, those seasons will pass.

You may fear no one will understand what you are going through, the gravity of it all. But, you will surround yourself with experts who guide you through the process. You will create a team of advocates who ensure your child is not limited. You will learn who your true friends are and make new ones, too. This circle will help you feel less alone.

You will fight for your child’s rights and access to a first-rate education. You will ensure they are seen and heard. This will reveal a strength and determination you never knew existed.

And, your child will learn to be resilient, adaptable, and empathetic. Because their journey will not be a typical one—they will develop grit and courage.
You will eventually sit back and marvel at how far—in what seems like a blink of an eye—they have come.

At this moment, you may be overwhelmed by the choices in communication modalities, technology, and be confused by the varying opinions of others.

I guarantee you that your instincts will know what is best for your child. Because no one knows your baby better than you. You will learn to trust your gut and intuition. It will lead you in the right direction. Every. Time.

There truly is no one-size-fits-all way to navigate this journey. It is unique to you and your child. And as long as you are loving and accepting, you won’t go wrong.

New parents, I want you to know that no matter how many times you feel judged or the lack of empathy from others, you have the power to keep spreading awareness and acceptance. You have an opportunity to educate and make the world a more inclusive, tolerant place.

Hearing loss can be intimidating in the beginning. But, once you get your footing and educate yourself, you will see it as a small part of your baby. They are more than this. They are still whole. Remarkable. And amazing.

New parents, know you’ve got this! Your child—because of your love—will succeed. Keep setting the bar high and your child will exceed expectations, and the sky will be the limit.

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  • Charity kahuriah
    Posted at 17:11h, 07 February Reply

    These are real special gifts from my 11 year old girl to the Moon and back.

  • Poorna
    Posted at 00:08h, 08 February Reply

    Soo true… thankyou for all the support! I know it’s going to be okay

  • Michelle
    Posted at 15:09h, 23 May Reply

    This real!! I’ll never change my baby girl I love her just the way she is and I know one day she would responde to me, thank you for ur kindness words, is amazing be part of this team and before we understand them we have to admit us first and accept the way it is! Could be hard at the beginning but with love everything go…

  • Sharon moyer
    Posted at 19:54h, 17 July Reply

    My daughter has been hard of hearing her whole life. She struggled through school but became a cheer leader, later finished college with a masters degree and is now an amazing teacher. She understands students struggles because she was there. She says her hearing loss is a gift. She can read lips and give help when others can’t.

  • Mary Morris
    Posted at 14:41h, 01 February Reply

    What beautiful words of encouragement! I have been there and it is all true.

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